Quelle: Judy Minx, www.nakedby.com

Den Begriff “Stone” kennen viele Queers aus dem Kultroman »”Stone Butch Blues” (1993) von Transgender- Aktivist Leslie Feinberg, der übrigens dieses Jahr seinen sechzigsten Geburtstag feierte. “Stone” bezeichnet Eigenschaften queerer Identitäten, die sich beim sexuellen Akt nicht an spezifischen Stellen (oft, aber nicht immer, im genitalen Bereich) berühren lassen wollen. Die französische Queer-Porno-Darstellerin und Femme Judy Minx hat in ihrem Blog einen wunderbaren kleinen Essay über verschiedene Formen von »Stone« geschrieben. Denn neben Stone Butches gibt es auch Stone Femmes oder Stone Sex Workers, wie Judy Minx schreibt:

“Stone is the transmen who won’t get naked when they’re fucking you, much less let you fuck them. Stone is the sexworkers who won’t let their clients kiss them. Stone is how sometimes you get ticklish and it’s just the way your body says “don’t touch me there”. Stone is the butches who don’t want my lipstick to get smeared on their lips when we make out, and the reason why I wear kiss-proof rouge à lèvres. Stone is how so many women won’t trust anyone but themselves with their bodies enough to let go and cum. Stone is how I’ll get tense if you get too close to my clit, and keep my hand ready to stop yours, clutched firmly around your arm, trying to keep control. Stone is how I’ll fidget and wiggle under you, feeling trapped, not telling you I’m scared, just trying to reduce the harm, moving away from you with my hips, escaping as much as I can. “You’re not doing anything wrong, just going places where I’ve been hurt”, I whisper when you ask what’s going on. Thank you for asking. Maybe stone is also how upset you got, how I felt you cringe, when your friend called you a name he says is your real name, and how relieved you felt that I didn’t hear it. Stone is these experiences that queers have in common, these hard boundaries that pain has carved in our bodies, making us harden. In some places, my stone can be melted, if you do it right, if you’re patient and listen. In others, it will remain hard as a rock.”

Text: Judy Minx, im Original auf Judy Minx’ Blog: http://imsoexcited.canalblog.com

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